The downfall of people knowing that your Samoan, is
that when Thanksgiving comes around all I hear is "Sister Efnor....we
know you want moooore." I literally almost passed out at the dinner
table because I was far past my capacity. Aside from the lack of sleep
Thanksgiving night, because I had a whole turkey in my stomach, it was
great getting to visit other families and hear what everyone was
thankful for.
Last night we had the baptism of Soo and
Yeageon, literally my favorite Koreans on this planet.
Teaching them has
been such a blessing in my life, their testimony's are beautifully
simple. Its been a reminder to me of the true simplicity of the gospel.
Even with the Thanksgiving weekend and most students being gone, quite a
few of the ward members came and supported them both. Everything went
over without a hitch, but my favorite part of the baptism was when Soo
received the gift of the Holy Ghost. Before anyone could start to form a
circle or put their hand on his head, he was sitting on the chair, arms
in his lap and his eyes closed. He looked so peaceful, just waiting
there with his eyes closed, preparing himself to receive this special
gift. After the baptism Sister Curtis was talking to Yeageon and he said
that Saturday night he and Soo stayed up till all hours of the night talking about how their life was going to be different after Sunday. They would be living a different life style when they go back to Korea and there would be...no more beer. lol
Wednesday,
we met with a recent convert Kendra. She has been a member for all of
about 2 months and is already teaching in gospel principles. We went
over to see if we could help her prepare for her lesson. In that same
gospel principle class there is a girl that we have been teaching for
awhile, its been such a blessing to have Kendra in that class so this
girl can see the progression that Kendra is making and how being
baptized has blessed her life. A couple weeks ago during the class
Kendra was asked if she felt ready for baptism, her reply was " No, I
don't think I will ever fully feel ready, or feel like I knew everything I
needed to know." That was perfect for the girl we have been teaching,
and perfect for me! I'm never going to truly have a full knowledge of the
gospel, not in this life. It had been somewhat frustrating to me
recently that I cant always answer all the questions that I am asked. I cant rebuttal
most of the anti Mormon stuff that gets thrown at me either. I know that it doesn't make the
gospel any less true. There was a talk by Elder Holland that I have
referenced quite a bit called Lord I Believe "When
the infinite fulness is poured forth, it is not the oil’s fault if
there is some loss because finite vessels can’t quite contain it all.10 Those finite vessels include you and me, so be patient and kind and forgiving."
Monday
night on our way back from playing volleyball with the zone Curtis and I
get a phone call from a guy in one of the wards that we cover. He just
got out of the slammer, and has roughed up his body pretty bad with
drugs, he doesn't know where his family is, but he is wanting to come
back to church. The night before we gave him our number on a sticky
note. So, we get a call from a Pennsylvania area code, its RJ asking if
we could find him shoes. He got locked out of his house and he didn't
have any shoes. So we called the elder quorum president to see if he
could help out, he was at work. I figured since RJ was shorter than me
that my Nikes would fit him. So we drove over to his house. He was just
huddled up on the side of the road because it was so cold. I got out and
gave him my shoes, he put them on and said, "Oh my gosh! These are so
comfortable and warm! Thank you!" He doesn't have much and the only
reason he called us was because he had the sticky note in his pocket
still and had to ask a stranger passing by if he could use their phone. I
learned a lot of different things from this experience, the first...Be
so stinking grateful for all I have! During a sacrament meeting that I
went to yesterday there was a talk given on charity..the girl gave an
example of what she has found charity to be.."Its not giving money to
the homeless man, its definitely not thinking "I'm not going to give him
money because he'll only use it to buy something that i don't approve
of." Charity is seeing the homeless man and understanding him. Charity is thinking
about all the things he has had to go through to now be standing on the
corner homeless. Charity is wondering what life has done to bring him to this point." I had
never thought of it that way. This story isn't to tell everyone that I gave RJ my shoes, because shoes are just shoes. It's to share the
experience that I had in seeing that helping someone and having charity
toward them is much more than giving of material things, but seeing where
that person has been..understanding them..and loving them anyways as
Christ would.
I was thinking last night how if I
hadn't made the decision to serve a mission, none of this would have
happened! I wouldn't have met these people, I probably would have
learned these principles, but not in this way! If you are reading this
and are thinking about going on a mission..NIKE that stuff and JUST DO
IT!
I love you all and I hope that during this Christmas season we can all find a way to implement more Christ in {CHRIST}mas.
Sister Efnor
I sure am going to miss Sister Curtis when she leaves!! So grateful for all that she has taught me!!
Oh my goodness girl......what wonderful inspiring stories! What you said about the homeless is what I have always told Opa.....I don't care what if any poor choices got that person in that situation....all that matters is that is the situation,and it's hard and sad....we are so blessed how can we possibly not feel compassion and want to help in some way! I love you so much and am so proud of YOU!
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